My Nephew Paul Graduated From Harvard Law!

My nephew PaulI spent yesterday day tripping to Cambridge Mass to see my one and only nephew Paul graduate from Harvard Law. We’re all incredibly proud of him.

Next week he’s moving to NYC (Brooklyn) to study for (& pass) the NY bar. It’ll be great having him around – I haven’t had any of my family in NYC before (other than Paul being here last summer).

Once he passes the bar he’s going into public service law here in New York City. His primary interest is helping the poor with landlord/tenant issues.

Prior to going to Harvard Paul worked for People For The American Way. While there (among other things) he did blogging for RightWingWatch.org, which is ironic given that my parents (his grandparents) are fundamentalist Christians who have given heavily to Jerry Falwell and the Moral Majority. I used to hear Jerry Falwell specifically name People For The American Way as one of the enemy organizations that were working to undermine “traditional Christian values”.

Needless to say I think Paul (my parents’ only grandson) has managed to get “black sheep” status like I (their only son) have. I did it by majoring in “socialism” (aka Sociology) and by being gay. So it’s somewhat fitting that the two black sheep of the family will both be living in Sodom & Gomorrah (aka New York City). Needless to say I’m baffled by my parents’ belief system which can see evil in a guy with a Harvard Law degree who chooses to dedicate his life to serving the poor. All I can say is that success is the best revenge – though it’s not really about revenge – they’re just irrelevant to our lives – which IMHO is a fate worse than revenge when you’re talking about someone’s only son and only grandson.

Remarkably Harvard Law is incredibly aggressive in getting their graduates to do public service. The commencement brochure had a long list of the names of grads who had done more than 1,000 hours of pro bono service during their time at Harvard and a shorter list of those who had done more than 2,000 hours (one work year) of pro bono service. Paul was on the 1,000+ hours list.

Harvard goes even further in pushing their grads to do public service – they’ll actually pay off their graduates’ student loans if they work for a certain amount of time in public service (or pay a percentage if the graduates work less than the full amount). It’s pretty amazing to think of an army of Harvard Law grads working for equality. Stuff like that can really change the world.

One humorous note was that Ruth Bader Ginsburg made an appearance at the graduation. She attended Harvard back in the late ’50s, when Harvard Law was just starting to admit women. Family obligations required her to move to NYC after her 2nd year. At the time she asked Harvard to let her finish her 3rd year at Columbia and still get a Harvard degree. Harvard declined and she got a degree from Columbia instead. At this year’s main commencement she was finally awarded the degree. Apparently Ginsburg still holds a bit of a grudge ’cause she insisted on also showing up at the Law School commencement and driving home the point that Harvard refused her the degree back in the ’50s. Here she is talking at the Law School commencement (she’s just a bit bigger than a dot – we were sitting towards the back).

Ruth Bader Ginsburg @ Harvard Law Commencement 2011

Carol Harper - Paul's momIt was also great to see people from my family. The picture to the right is my sister Carol – Paul’s proud mom. Paul’s dad was there, his sisters Joi and Bessa were there, my sister Kathy was there, and Paul’s uncle Roger and his family was also there in addition to several friends.

Our Friend Rob Woo Was Seriously Hurt in Accident At Goldman Sachs

I came back from walking the dogs tonight and sat down to watch TV. I always go to bed after walking the dogs, but for some reason I didn’t. Then I was flipping channels at the top of the hour and started watching the 11:00 news on NY1 – something else I rarely ever do. One of the top stories was about a construction crane accident in lower Manhattan at the new Goldman Sachs building. They said one person in a construction trailer was seriously injured.

I was hoping it wasn’t our friend, Rob Woo, who’s an architect on the project, so I started searching on Google to find stories about the accident. I saw one article that called him “Robert Wood” – it was close enough that I woke up Dan who was sleeping on the couch next to me and told him Rob might have been hurt – the reporters might have gotten his name wrong. (Rob was the best man at his brother’s wedding.) Then I found another article that spelled his name correctly and gave his age. Then I knew for sure it was him.

Dan called his mom, who called Rob’s mom. We called the hospital and left a message, not knowing what else to do. Then Dan’s mom called him back. Rob’s injuries are really serious and all sorts of family have flown in to be with him, his wife and his kids. Hopefully we’ll be able to get in touch with them tomorrow and help out a bit…

Update @ 10:20 the next morning…

The gothamist has an incredible photo of the crane accident on their site snapped by one of their readers… Just imagine being in that construction trailer…

Crane collapse seriously hurts Rob Woo

We’re leaving in a bit to go to the hospital to see his family and possibly Rob…

Update @ 6:20 the next evening…

We just got back from spending most of the day at the hospital with Rob and his wife. He’s in incredibly bad shape, as you might expect. His spine is broken and dislocated, and everyone’s pretty convinced at this point that he’ll be paralyzed from the waist down as a result, though it was promising that he seemed to have a little feeling in his legs when a neurologist examined him this afternoon.

It couldn’t have come at a worse time for his family. His wife just moved here from Toronto 6 weeks ago with their two kids (Rob has been commuting back and forth for over a year now). Just yesterday (the day of the accident) they closed on the sale of their loft in Toronto, which would have been a perfect place for someone in a wheelchair. And yesterday was also the 2nd anniversary of his wife’s father’s death. So, really bad time for the family. His brother, mother, and mother-in-law have all come down from Toronto and his father (a doctor, who’s recovering from surgery himself) may be coming in the next day or so.

The press have been trying to get interviews, and curiously one arrived at their apartment this morning and by coincidence had the same name as someone his wife was expecting so he was let into the building. Being unprepared to say “no” his wife (Lisa) granted the interview and spent quite a while talking to the reporter in attempt to have Rob portrayed as a real, wonderful human being rather than a nondescript accident victim. Apparently the reporter didn’t show any credentials – so we’re just hoping he was really a reporter…

Early tomorrow morning he’ll be going into surgery to stabilize his back. From the sounds of it they’ll be realigning his spine, fusing some of the bones (I believe the break is at the 10th and 11th vertebrae), and putting rods in his back to avoid further injury.

Rob Woo with his kidsUpdate @ 10 am Sunday…

Well, it seems the reporter I mentioned above who interviewed Lisa was a legit reporter – Mike Jaccarino. He and his colleagues wrote a great piece on Rob that really portrayed him as the great guy he is… The picture they have of him (here to the right) is off Lisa’s camera. It has a bit of a funny story behind it in that she had all sorts of pics of the kids on the camera since she spends all day with them, but had a hard time finding one of him. This one isn’t the best pic (he’s more attractive than that), but it’s not bad…

Update @ 11 pm Monday…

We stopped by the hospital tonight. They had to move Rob because he had a fake doctor (a reporter?) sneak in and try to visit him. Then there was the call from the guy with a thick Brooklyn accent who claimed to be his cousin (his relatives are Chinese Canadians, so it was pretty funny). And apparently there was a whole gaggle of reports waiting for his family this morning, but gratefully (other than the one ‘fake doctor’) they just waited patiently in the lobby…

But the good news is that Rob has feeling down to his ankles. It’s hard to tell what this means, but it’s definitely a good sign. He was still in pretty bad shape (things like bruises are looking more prominent), and they have to have him on so many pain killers that he goes from being somewhat lucid to completely out of it in a matter of minutes. But he was definitely better than he was a couple of days ago. He’s even able to eat some solid food…

Yesterday’s surgery apparently went well. He’s now able to sit more vertically. However, they may need to do another surgery in the coming days (from the front this time) to fix other problems.

He is enjoying having friends stop by – it cheers him up a lot to see familiar faces, though we had to be careful not to stay too long and tire him out.

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