It’s somewhat poetic that baby boomers will be hit the hardest

I’m not quite sure what to think about the $700B bailout failing yesterday in Congress and the huge drop on the stock market. Who knows what should have happened yesterday. I know I don’t.

One thing I do know is that the baby boomers have been spending spending spending thinking nothing of passing debt onto those of us who are younger and expecting us to pay for it. The generation below me, and to an extent my generation, doesn’t expect Social Security to be there for them when they retire. Why? Because the system has been mismanaged by the generation just older than mine – the baby boomers.

And that’s true of the economy in general. With the exception of Clinton who managed to balance the budget, baby boomers have been on a spending spree for decades. And even with Clinton the seeds of the dot com bust were sown during his administration.

I’m not saying my generation isn’t just as bad – hell, look at the excesses of the dot com era which were completely the responsibility of my generation and the generation below me. But the really big stuff is the fault of the baby boomers by and large – they were the ones who were driving the biggest institutions. The mess they’ve created is going to make the dot com bust look like child’s play.

While I feel for the baby boomers who have been responsible and have favored a more fiscally responsible government (not ones that supported starting wars that cost $10B/month, and were OK with playing fast and loose with mortgages people couldn’t afford long term), I think it’s completely fair that this economic downturn is going to hit baby boomers the hardest. Baby boomers are close to retirement age and their primary assets – their stock portfolios and homes – are dropping in value quickly. Their retirement prospects are looking pretty bleak right now.

Now, the more conservative of them will have conservative investments as well – I mean you’re completely irresponsible if you’re investing aggressively close to retirement age. So in a way this downturn is going to hit the people who were the most careless the hardest – which is completely fair IMHO.

Personally, I’d like to see the retirement age for Social Security be raised immediately – at least for white collar workers (I get the fact that blue collar workers in demanding jobs need a lower retirement age). Why do the people who screwed up the system get to benefit from it by retiring earlier than the generations after them who will have to deal with the mess they created?

You just can’t pass your debt on to other people indefinitely and expect to get away with it. Because the economy the baby boomers created wasn’t based on solid principles and assets with genuine value, their personal assets (stock portfolios and real estate) were unrealistically valued as well. Now we’re seeing a correction and IMO it’s good that the people who created this fake economy are suddenly confronted with the reality that what they created was largely smoke and mirrors.

I’m 40. I’ve got 30 years before I retire. Even if my assets are completely wiped out (which I doubt), I’m at a point in my life where I can completely recover financially before retirement. I’m sure I’ll be negatively affected by all of this, but I’m not going to be wiped out. I’m not wondering if I’ll be eating cat food at the age of 80.

But there are lessons to be learned here for my generation and the generations that follow… The primary one being to always carry a really good bullshit dectector. I mean with home prices rising way over median incomes, what did we expect? With 2-5 year adjustable mortgages that would likely go up to the point where people couldn’t afford them, what did we expect? And with deregulating money-hungry, do anything to get rich, Wall Street, what did we expect?

When 9/11 happened I was shocked that Americans didn’t understand that we sorta asked for it. You can’t bully other nations, disrespect their cultures, play a heavy hand in their internal politics and economies, and expect to get away with it. Well, we handled our own economy with the same recklessness, and this time we’ve clearly got no one but ourselves to blame for it…

What’s really sad is how we’ve coddled the extremely rich. The other day I saw Robert Reich mention that in 1980 the top 1% took home 8% of the nation’s income. Today they take home 20%. So all those billionaires who created this mess will most likely still be billionaires even if they have to sell a mansion or two. But when you have an election where it’s made clear that one candidate will cut taxes for the super rich and the other one will increase taxes on the super rich and the guy who will cut taxes on the super rich wins… Well, that means people sorta asked for it to be this way.

In the end I hope we get real with our economy. I understand that the entreprenurial, try anything approach has been the key to our success, but it needs to be tempered with realism. When other countries loan us money it has to be because our economy is solid, not just solid-looking. It’s time now to build back our economy – only on solid foundations this time. Let’s hope our leaders make the right decisions….

UPDATE:

Well, my post was timely… It’s a few days later now and what do you know but Robert Reich (of all people) just did a blog post about how the downturn is affecting “early boomers” like himself. He talks about how people close to retirement are the first to get cut in a downturn ’cause they have high salaries. And he also mentions how their investments just took a huge nose dive. Curiously, he’s glad Social Security is there to help them.

I don’t get straight people sometimes…

This photo makes no sense on two levels… 1) Why would someone do that to a minivan? I mean, it’s a minivan for god’s sake! And 2) what’s with the girl in the photo? Is she supposed to be the soccer mom who owns the minivan? Wouldn’t it be hotter if she drove a different type of car?

Please, if you understand straight people – explain that photo to me!

1 Year, 10,000 Miles, Loving Our 2008 VW R32

When I got the R32 a year ago I was really psyched. I had waited like 6 months for it and it was in the first batch to arrive in August ’07… My only complaint about the car is that I haven’t gotten to drive it enough – especially this year. I think it was July that we put a whopping 30 miles on it.

Nevertheless, we did manage to put about 10,000 miles on it the first year and had a great time with it. Initially I was driving to Norwalk, CT a couple a times a week on the Merritt Parkway, which is a blast with all the curves and whatnot. And on Memorial Day I drove single-handed to Chicago with a stop in Cincinatti both directions.

I haven’t gotten enough pictures of it, but here is one from the Chicago trip – this one is taken in Oak Park, near the Frank Lloyd Wright house…

2008 Mk 5 R32, Candy White

Gas mileage isn’t all that great with it, but with a 3.2L, VR6, 250hp engine you don’t really expect it to be. I get about 24 mpg on the highway driving “comfortably fast”, which isn’t bad in my book. If I slowed down, I’d get better gas mileage, but that’s not why I bought an R32. (Do make sure you have a good radar detector).

One of my favorite things about the car is when Dan drops off something at the front door and then drives away to go park it in the garage. The sound (or should I say growl) of the car is just perfect. I get this big grin on my face and think “yeah, that’s my car…”

Would I get another R32? Absolutely, in a heartbeat…

What happened to gay creativity?

As happy as I am that gay men (and lesbians and the transgendered) are being more widely accepted, I feel like the gay community has lost something in the process. That our assimilation into mainstream culture has made us more ordinary.

I was just a kid in the 70s and my parents were big fans of Jerry Falwell. I remember going to Thomas Road Baptist Church one Sunday and having gay men protesting on a picket line outside, so my experience with the gay community in the 70s isn’t first hand…

But looking back at pictures and videos from the era there was a level of creativity that you don’t see anymore. Sure they have the obligatory gay guy on every design/make-over show, but how did the creativity of gay men go from the outrageous antics of groups like The Radical Faeries and The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence (both founded in 1979) to making picture perfect apartments and making straight guys into metrosexuals?

I mean think The Radical Faeries are all about rejecting heterosexual norms and finding our own way – of not being afraid to blend masculine and feminine – of not being limited by norms of acceptable creativity… Here are some pics I’ve “borrowed” from LifeLube’s blog – they have a weekly Friday is for Faeries blog post which is inspiring to see that while the Faerie movement is small, it’s still very much alive…

Radical Faerie with a beard and a tiara

Radical Faerie in Indian garb

Radical Faerie - Just a regular guy

As you can see – they range the gamut – some can be wonderfully creative, others just enjoying themselves and having fun, while others are just normal guys who seem genuinely well-adjusted.

Then you have The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence… They take more of an in-your-face, over-the-top, “shock and awe” sort of approach to their creativity…

Needless to say whether it’s the Radical Faeries or The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, these are the sorts of gay guys who really push creative boundaries in our society. With the commercialization of gay creativity on reality TV shows, it just feels like gay creativity is less than it used to be – more mainstream, more homogenous.

Or maybe there are just as many as there were in the 70s, but they’re less visible because they’re now a smaller percentage of our community since all the people who had no problem “blending in” have now come out of the closet.

Still, it’s wonderful when you see crazy creative minds at work. One of the latest that I’ve come across is François Sagat who’s best known for being a big name porn star, but when you look at his his blog and his YouTube channel you realize how much more he is – how wonderfully creative he is. He is a porn star and a lot of his creativity is centered around his body (his ass in particular), but he takes it way beyond the vulgarities of porn and makes it into something fascinating and edgy…

One of his more recent videos is a music video of sorts with him, a drag queen (playing his girlfriend), and another guy who he’s got the hots for…

Yes, I like the fact that HIV/AIDS isn’t killing off gay creative talent like it was in the ’80s and early ’90s. I like the fact that gay men are back in the saddle creatively – even if that’s making straight guys into metrosexuals, or helping women chose better outfits, or decorating a home. But I’ve got a special place in my heart for the guys who are “out there” and push the limits of what’s acceptable. I’m a geek – I’ll never be one of those people, but I know they’re special – very special…

The Downside Of In-Car Navigation Systems

We love the 2008 VW R32 we got back in August. And one of the things we like the most is the nav system. I’ve read reviews that say it’s not the best navigation system, but it does the job pretty well. The most important thing is we never argue about directions…  I was raised in a family where the answer to “are we there yet” was to pass you a map and tell you to find where we were, where we were going and calculate the distance and divide by the speed. Dan has improved his navigation skills considerably since we first met, but before the nav system there were still times I’d have to either grab the map and look at it while I was driving, or pull over to look at the map… Now with “Mildred” (the name we’ve given our nav system) – none of that is necessary.

You’d think the nav system is completely wonderful, but I’m on a trip right now in Chicago and I gotta say there are times I love the nav system, and times I wish I had a map on me. What you lose with navigation systems is a sense of place and location. With a map you get a big picture and see things in relation to each other. Coming into a new city I feel a bit lost using a nav system to get me around. Sure it does a good job, but I don’t really have a clue where I am, and I miss that. I want to understand the city and the nav system doesn’t do that for me. I tried Google Maps and that helps a little, but for really getting and understanding a big map with lots of information density will beat Google Maps any day.